Thinking

As I sit here in the Sprint store I look back on this past year and how everything worked out.. And I noticed I am smiling and everyone here proberbly thinks I'm crazy. But a little less than nine months ago I got married and became a Clark. I am honored to take this name, because with the name I also got a husband, a step-son, a couple more sisters, and other family members that comes along with him.

But man no one tells you it will be easy.. They tell you to never go to bed mad but that goes out the window when your mad and sleepy.. "They" seem to say a lot. "They" always seem to be lurking on blogs and married people groups... But we never see who these so called "they" people are. You love your spouse with all your heart, but they don't tell you there will be days where you don't like them or anything they say or do. But you will stand in the biggest wind storm right next to them holding their hand.

People don't realize that getting married won't make things better. But what it does is magnify everything times 1000. So if you had problems before you got married they are still there. That smile he/she flashed will get old... The tantrum she used to throw when she doesn't get her way, will no longer be cute.. This isn't easy, and everyday I'm learning more about myself as well as him. You never fully understand or know someone no matter how long you may have been together.

Relationships aren't easy at times but hell a marriage is hard work. What you put into your marriage is what you get... I don't claim to be an expert on marriages or relationships, and I don't claim to be an expert on mine.. What I'm telling you is "THEY" don't really know what works for you, only you know for sure what works for you. So don't listen to they, or your friends.. Listen to you and your spouse.. Y'all are the only ones in your relationship or marriage.